chicken wrote:
Congratulations Maggie! It's great to see it is finally kicking in for you. 5 AF days and only 3,5 drinks! That is great. I am very happy for you.
Did it take a big effort to abstain now? Or is it coming 'naturally'?
For me, I am still getting used to this new situation. And I also have the surreal feeling you describe. I am also still very cautious about the future. Sometimes I doubt I could keep this new lifestyle up, just as it happened in the past.
Now we need to continue this. Change the habit to not drinking, or not as much as we used to. -For good.
I think it was Guapo who said somewhere that less drinking leads to less drinking. That is absolutely true. I have experienced that and I see that as well in your progress. Every day without alcohol contributes to the progress of less drinking.
I believe that the AF days thanks to your Nal-over also contributed to your great progress. The same is true for me. And it does not matter what makes you abstain from drinking for a few days, what matters is that you do it.
I feel that once you start to drink less you get into the flow of 'just' not drinking.
Chicken, it absolutely will continue. It will continue because you believe, and that is the most important thing of all.